Speaking about imposing ideas on another friend, I think everyone has own sense of value and ideas and of course, it yearns to be recognised. If a person is not able to accept other people have their own opinions which are different from his own, then it is very difficult to have a fruitful friendship. Do not be too critical of others and be disapproving of what others are expressing without trying to put yourself in the other person's place. Just imagine for seconds what would you do if you are in his position?
A little bit of empathy would be great and well-appreciated I guess. Would you do things any better, worse or different? Respect their opinion. If you are a true friend, you won't impose, you won't judge!
Clairvoyant Maria Duval teaches that the fact that you are someone's friend does not authorise you to give advice when you haven't been asked for it, to ask awkward questions or to commit discretions. And you yourself must think twice before you share confidences that you might regret later.
If you do this, you will gain true, sincere and devoted friends on whom you can rely and whom you'll be glad to meet during good times and bad. Remember that friendship is a balance! Make sure you do not spoil this wonderful balance by being over imposing and critical.
8.3.08
Gaining trusted friends
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